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    Visitor's Visa

    Yeah we've tried the sensible approach and failed but we still don't want to rush into things, as much as we want to get married we know we have to take our time. I'm just annoyed that he might not able to prove himself worthy to my mother but I know he's worthy and that's the most important...
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    Visitor's Visa

    Well we have a plan...after a few days feeling lost, confused, angry and heartbroken and a few days of falling apart and loosing each other we have decided to wait and whilst we wait he will try to get a job with a contract and save more into his bank account, I will visit him next month if my...
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    Visitor's Visa

    I'm going to look at the appeal process tomorrow, would I have to travel to Tunisia to appeal against it with him or is he only allowed to appeal?
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    Visitor's Visa

    Wouldn't it be better to start again and reapply? They put at the bottom we could appeal but only if we thought the judgement was unlawful or against his human rights. Which it wasn't. I'm willing to go back over there if we are refused again. If the holiday is also a shorter one surely that...
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    Visitor's Visa

    Oh and yes I earn more than £18,600 now
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    Visitor's Visa

    No he doesn't rent as he's still at the family home and no one is willing to help him. Would a letter from his father explaining his grandmother's ill health and the fact he cares for her help do you think?
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    Visitor's Visa

    We can fix the accounts, but he can't get anything to tie him to the country. I have wrote a letter explaining that I would ensure he goes back to Tunisia and would buy a return flight and will take full responsibility for him. I also mentioned that we intend to marry in his city in Decemeber...
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    Visitor's Visa

    Thanks guys, I've just done a double shift and can't wait to get home and have a good cry to get the stress out of my system. I feel like I'm having to stay strong for both of us and he's really took it hard and has lost his usual spark.
  9. SJK

    Visitor's Visa

    Well they said that we could only appeal under a certain act and nothing in that act counts for us so we're just going to pick ourselves up and reapply
  10. SJK

    Visitor's Visa

    It was based on both bank accounts closing statements not being very high in funds but that's easily sorted and his contract with the club he plays for ending in June as the football season finishing. Which hopefully he's going to speak with the coach to get a letter confirming that they are...
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    Visitor's Visa

    It got rejected and now I don't know what to do
  12. SJK

    Visitor's Visa

    I will don't worry, if it wasn't for the support from the members on here I think we'd still be going round in circles
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    Visitor's Visa

    Yeah something along those lines lol! Well he got the email today saying his passport is ready to be collected on Thursday but they didn't tell us yes or no....shaking like a leaf now!
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    Visitor's Visa

    I'm wanting an answer now lol Ah well as each day passes we are closer to an answer :confused:
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    Visitor's Visa

    I am getting really edgy over it, I am desperate to start making plans for when he's here but don't want to make them cos I don't want to end up disappointed. My family reckon it's cos the embassy don't want to go through all that paperwork we handed in and keep putting it off. I just want my...
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