tblueyez

Hi Tblueyez,

Good luck with your new relationship. Take it slow. There are some good ones, but they are in the minority. I don't live in Tunisia, I live in London. Sometimes the online ones can be just as bad, hope yours isn't. I don't trust them at all. Heard far too much.

Hi Blue Eyez,

Thank god you managed to get out before you got your rat a visa. Sorry you had this experience. Have you considered naming and shaming him on Tunisian Love rats, and putting his photo up?

So sorry to hear your news mate! U sound like u are keeping it all together and remaining positive.

HI. I guess that you told the solicitor that you have never lived together? I wondered if that might have made a difference, i.e. the marriage not being 'normal' UK. Have you been into the citizens advice to ask for help, they're usually quite good, solicitors are such a rip off. I know you want to get him out of your hair, but could you wait until he divorces you, then he'll have all the hassle and expense to bare. I'm sorry that he turned out to be such a **** bag You need to put this out of your head now as best you can until you can do something about it......... it's not him making you feel depressed now, it's your own thoughts. Sorry, I'm not being horrible when I say that, but don't let yourself dwell on the negatives of what's gone on. You need to be kind to yourself now and treat yourself well. Do you know if it's his intention to get a divorce ? Take care of you and yours, chin up. Speak soon Debbie x

HI. I guess that you told the solicitor that you have never lived together? I wondered if that might have made a difference, i.e. the marriage not being 'normal' UK. Have you been into the citizens advice to ask for help, they're usually quite good, solicitors are such a rip off. I know you want to get him out of your hair, but could you wait until he divorces you, then he'll have all the hassle and expense to bare. I'm sorry that he turned out to be such a **** bag You need to put this out of your head now as best you can until you can do something about it......... it's not him making you feel depressed now, it's your own thoughts. Sorry, I'm not being horrible when I say that, but don't let yourself dwell on the negatives of what's gone on. You need to be kind to yourself now and treat yourself well. Do you know if it's his intention to get a divorce ? Take care of you and yours, chin up. Speak soon Debbie x

HI tblueyez. Sorry to hear you're having a lousy time, I hope things are looking up now, keep telling yourself things can only get better. I hope it's not this site causing your **** time? We're off on holiday tomorrow, in fact leaving for the airport in an hour or so. I was driving, but OMG I am so tired, don't think I could stay awake, so I've just phoned a taxi instead. Waste of car parking money but at least I'll get there safely Anyway, every cloud has a silver lining, I'm having a bacardi and coke now You wouldn't believe the case of goodies we're taking, 4 tins of roses, 24 easter eggs and god knows what else, there's no room for my stuff, I'm travelling light, just a few clothes and my ipig charger, the cases will be empty coming home. Take care, chin up x

HI Tblueyez. I haven't seen you online for a while, maybe you're on holiday. Here's hoping you're having a fabulous time if you are. Hope all's good. Debbie x

Oh yeah, I definitely understand that.. yeah I have a fb, my email is [email protected] U should be able to find me using my email

Hey Tblueyez, I hope everything is well with you, let me know if you ever want to talk.. Take care!

hiya i'm so sorry i didn't reply sooner, i haven't logged in for a while and i keep not seeing that i have notifications!
good luck to your husband for his test mine is here now, he came on 12th feb. hence why i haven't been online for a while xx

Hi Teresa, how u doing? feels like ages since we've talked, not an every day occurence on here no more lol! Things are going really well, just really searching hard for work for Mohamed. Are you ok? i saw a comment on facebook, not being nosey just wanna make sure your ok?! xx

Just wanted to say hi - Wondered how your job was going at the golf club?
Has your hubby been revising for the Engish test? Glad the contact info I sent was ok



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you take care too
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sori to hear that honey.
chin up and if you need a natter just shout.
im a good shoulder to cry on.

i dont have facebook cos im a college teacher and dont want hassle from students
here's my email addy:

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hey hon
how are you?

whats going on with all the fighting theses days!!!
im fractically packing cos heading down to gatwick tues night and tunis weds.
cant wait to see hubby.
miss him so much and he obsessed bout baby making right now since i came off pill in new year.
its v scary but exciting.

hows life with you, hubby and new job?
xxx

Thanks hon! was not so sure it would even happen with the south african birth cert being an issue (3months old) but luckily it was ok

me too. its sad but it really cheered me up logging on in the mornig and seeing you all posting votes.

maybe we could win the lottery!!!

will do hon. will get a few more when im over next week.

did you see Dinna was disqualified from competituion?

hey hon, you had a good day? hope your hubby was well impressed with your valentine's texts!

mine was thrilled!

i'm having a quiet evening at home - what a saddo, but hey. happy valentine's day.
xxx

Hey TBlueyez I just wanted to say thanks for offering me to pitch in on the plane ticket. I will get to go though, no worries, just have to save up a little longer (I hate being a student, lol). You are so sweet for offering though, and I'm so touched that you did But you don't have to do that, I'm going to find a way to go anyway, love always finds a way right, lol.
Let me know too if there's ever anything that you need help with