Sorry Catbou, but for the life of me I can't see why you feel you have to carry on with this marraige. You do not seem happy, your husband does not seem happy. Maybe it's time you called it a day.Now im understanding why his mum said she under stands quite well what im talking about.
he's just like his da, I told him u go back home ill take ur mum instead, she miserable as my mum
they live in some what of old ways, woman stay home, cook, clean, do chores and goes no where unless the man takes her places, she stays put until told can leave etc.. that is way too old, told him if that's what he wanted han he should have married a Tunisian woman. I don't believe that any more back than it was how it is this is 2011 not 1950:
I have health ins on him but he takes responsibity on the balance, I know he doesn't like it but oh well, he's not king tut like he thinks he is, told him don't like it move out, whats keeping u.
Im not begging u to stay, I do not wait on him hand and foot etc,, he gets off his lazy bum and does things for himself hey we both work welcome to america we all work together there's no his or her job titles in my house we all work as a unit.
I did write a letter to immigrantion telling them of how he changed what he's said etc