Hi all i really hope someone can advise ...
I divorced my ex husband on the 21st march this year in the uk and he is still here on a 2yr spouse visa expires in September. I think he is trying to change his visa to parent of a uk child as after nearly 1 year he has gotten his sister in tunisia to send a message asking if he can see our daughter. I know for the parent of a uk child visa he needs to have access to her and pay maintenance . I think this is what he is trying to achieve. Im reluctant in anyway to help him stay after all the crap he has put me thru mentally and physically inc domestic violence .... I have refused the visit which he has requested as i totally believe it is unfair on my daughter him walking in and out of his life as he has done many many times in her 4 years as and when he felt like it. She is confused at it is as he has never been in her life long enough to realise who he is. There is a prohibited steps order in place also .... Can anyone advise of anything i should be doing or not doing
I divorced my ex husband on the 21st march this year in the uk and he is still here on a 2yr spouse visa expires in September. I think he is trying to change his visa to parent of a uk child as after nearly 1 year he has gotten his sister in tunisia to send a message asking if he can see our daughter. I know for the parent of a uk child visa he needs to have access to her and pay maintenance . I think this is what he is trying to achieve. Im reluctant in anyway to help him stay after all the crap he has put me thru mentally and physically inc domestic violence .... I have refused the visit which he has requested as i totally believe it is unfair on my daughter him walking in and out of his life as he has done many many times in her 4 years as and when he felt like it. She is confused at it is as he has never been in her life long enough to realise who he is. There is a prohibited steps order in place also .... Can anyone advise of anything i should be doing or not doing