hi, i am new to this site and i would be happy to get some advice.
i was in tunisia for holiday with my whole family and few friends (there were 8 of us) and we met a guy from animation team. we really liked him because he was very funny and natural, he seemed genuine. he told us this is his first time in animation as a summer job, because he goes back to university in october (he is 20, btw)
all of us hung out often and basically, we became friends. my family liked him to such an extend that they proposed to him that if he ever wants to visit us in our country, we can help him with getting visa, place to stay etc.
i mean during our stay, i thought he liked me and to be honest, i liked him too, he is definitely good looking. and on our last day, he came to me, he said he really likes me and he would like to get to know me better, basically start dating. i told him, it would be hard, as i don't have much money and would not be able to come to him often (I'm 19 and still going to school). we had a long discussion about it and he even told me to ask my mother if she would allow it. my mother said she has no problem with that.
(btw, we even talked about sex. i told him i am a virgin and i made it very clear i am not rushing into having first sex very soon. he also proposed to have an exclusive relationship, meaning i would not date boys at home and he would not date girls in tunisia)
so once we arrived home, we started texting and i really like it. we call when we are free, he even respects me going out with my friends and everything. i did some research on the net and found only the negatives - one's he's in animation and wants to date you, he is a rat, he only wants visa and money... the thing is, he never asked me for anything, he even told me that tunisian men would never accept money from a girl or someone not from their family. he knew he would get visa even without dating, before he told me he liked me. when we talk, he rarely uses the word love, he prefers using the word like. when we talk, he goes somewhere private so no one listens to our conversations.
still, i understand that it is a very different mentality in tunisia and that even though he seems genuine, one should be very careful. so i thought i might try to get some advice from you, what do you think of his behaviour and if it can really happen that a relationship is genuine between a tunisian and european girl...
thanks you for any advice!
i was in tunisia for holiday with my whole family and few friends (there were 8 of us) and we met a guy from animation team. we really liked him because he was very funny and natural, he seemed genuine. he told us this is his first time in animation as a summer job, because he goes back to university in october (he is 20, btw)
all of us hung out often and basically, we became friends. my family liked him to such an extend that they proposed to him that if he ever wants to visit us in our country, we can help him with getting visa, place to stay etc.
i mean during our stay, i thought he liked me and to be honest, i liked him too, he is definitely good looking. and on our last day, he came to me, he said he really likes me and he would like to get to know me better, basically start dating. i told him, it would be hard, as i don't have much money and would not be able to come to him often (I'm 19 and still going to school). we had a long discussion about it and he even told me to ask my mother if she would allow it. my mother said she has no problem with that.
(btw, we even talked about sex. i told him i am a virgin and i made it very clear i am not rushing into having first sex very soon. he also proposed to have an exclusive relationship, meaning i would not date boys at home and he would not date girls in tunisia)
so once we arrived home, we started texting and i really like it. we call when we are free, he even respects me going out with my friends and everything. i did some research on the net and found only the negatives - one's he's in animation and wants to date you, he is a rat, he only wants visa and money... the thing is, he never asked me for anything, he even told me that tunisian men would never accept money from a girl or someone not from their family. he knew he would get visa even without dating, before he told me he liked me. when we talk, he rarely uses the word love, he prefers using the word like. when we talk, he goes somewhere private so no one listens to our conversations.
still, i understand that it is a very different mentality in tunisia and that even though he seems genuine, one should be very careful. so i thought i might try to get some advice from you, what do you think of his behaviour and if it can really happen that a relationship is genuine between a tunisian and european girl...
thanks you for any advice!
