I'm really new to the forum but one of the first threads I read was this one, and you've worried me. I've been seeing my man for 2 months and have been back there twice in that space of time. He is in Animation but to be honest, I actually trust him wholeheartedly, which is not like me normally, but I'm beginning to wonder am I being foolish? I hope not,it doesn't seem so. I've experienced love rats from all walks of life so I take it on a individual basis now, and this one seems different...(famous last words I'm sure). Why do these boys have such a bad reputation? He works in an extremely small animation team in a family orientated hotel.
Hi Alicia - I too feel the same as you ...thinkmy paranoia stems from the way my ex treated me. Its hard when they are so far away though and you know how girls behave on holiday!!! I suggest following your heart. I have been back 3 times since feb and am going again in December. When I am there I have no doubt its me he wants to be with but I will alway keep my eyes open and wits about me but think Iwould do that if I was having a relationship here too!!
Yep, I reckon that I feel the same way you do. When I'm there its all about me, to the point that people were commenting on how puppy dog he is when I'm around.......my photo's on his bedroom wall and his phone, and he's in constant contact....that can't be all that bad!! I reckon I will follow my heart but I'm a cautious person anyway. I'm heading back in January but so wish I could go back sooner, I only came home on Sat!!!
ha ha - are we seeing the same guy??!!! If thats how he was then I don't think you have anything to worry about.....you would know within yourself is something wasn't right. What date do you go in Jan?? Where do you stay?
I go 31st Dec and am staying in Skanes.....my boyfriend is in animation also
Hello, I met my husband when he was working in animation as well! It is true what Kellyc was saying about staying one step ahead and keep "testing"! I know that sounds ridiculous but with all the warnings your English friends and family will probably be giving you, you just need to be sure that you can prove them all wrong! I met my husband six years ago and it hasn't been easy but you do have to follow your heart.We are so happily married that I know it's all been worthwhile but when I look back at all that's happened, I don't know how I made it through! It has probably made us stronger as a couple though and we had a really hard time at the embassy in Tunis getting him here in the first place so it does test your true feelings for a person.
i agree wiyh every one of you. you do have to follow your heart. i've known my man since april and he also works in animation. i've tested him and he has also tested me. its just as bad for them as it is us. i try to go back every 6 to 8 weeks. the hotel i stay in at skanes treat me like one of the family as i'm always there. we have stayed in an apartment but my man just didn't want to get up for work! so he took it of sick....
do u know zazoo he worked in sahara then moved 2 liberty not spoke 2 him in ages my 1st visit 2 tunisia in march he was my 24hr bar drinkin buddy!
he was a sweet heart if u speak 2 him tell him lea said hi!! x
It looks like the guy bobo who was working there but the pic isn't clear enough for me to say for sure!! If it is him... he wasn't there in Feb when I was there but was in May and August - so fits in with your March thing!!
Think I might visit the Sahara one night when I'm there in December!!
With regard to phone numbers, the price I pay is whatI quoted i.e. 10p. per minute from a BT landline to a Tunisian mobile. Go have a look at [link=http://www.bestminutes.co.uk]http://www.bestminutes.co.uk[/link]
Charges from mobiles can vary, check out the FAQs on above site. Sooy it's taken so long to respond. I've been having lohin problems (nb Kris).
Hiya, First time on site and what a relief to know theres so many others in same situation as myself, im just back from tunisia last week and am totally depressed at having to leave my man At least i only have to wait another 4 weeks before i go back again !!!