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    Need advice what i need to marry a tunisian man in tunisia

    If he is wealthy then it makes sense that in the event you divorce you share his assets. If he is not wealthy and you are bringing more financially to the marriage then it makes sense to keep what is yours. If he is in Tunisia then he should be able to tell you exactly what is required...
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    help me please my wife she wants Devorce from me

    I think she can apply for a Divorce in Tunisia and the court will write to you to inform you and ask if you agree. Sometimes the person who wants the divorce and thinks their spouse may object will give the court the wrong address. As I understand the court will write to you three times. If they...
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    Why you married a tunisian man ???

    Good morning Chelio, reading your post gave me goosebumps. I heard those same words from my sister. She believed she had found her soulmate, was so warmly welcomed by his friends and his family. He was in contact with her 24/7 on skype, even while she was at work. He was full of love and support...
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    Why you married a tunisian man ???

    Oh goodness, I hope I didn’t offend with my response. I have to agree with much of what fit flop said. My sisters boyfriend gave up his job in a hotel. He thought he could make more money harvesting olives. I know it didn’t pay very well but it was a job. My sister was sending him money (...
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    Why you married a tunisian man ???

    I agree largely with what you write. Except in the last paragraph where it seems to me ( I’m probably wrong) that you maybe condoned this method of immigration, because they are desperate. I mean no offence. I read a lot here when my sister announced that she was going to marry a man she met...
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    General discussion

    It seems to me that either way your situation is difficult. Maybe you should take the job. At least you will be occupied. Have a little money and will meet new people. You cannot be prevented from working. It will be good for your own mental health to work. If you have been put in an...
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    General discussion

    That’s a terrible dilemma. Either to Live unhappily in the hope that it will improve or that you will at some point get a visa to stay or go home. I couldn’t stay in a relationship if I was very unhappy, I’d have to admit it was a mistake and go back to where I felt loved and understood.
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    General discussion

    You must feel very isolated there. It must be a very small place as most towns have people from all cultures. If you have Facebook there are groups for Tunisians in the UK.
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    General discussion

    I think he would have to remain married to get ILR. His wife could claim he deserted her and ask for his deportation and withdraw her sponsorship.
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    General discussion

    There are a lot of Tunisian people in the UK have you no one you can reach out to?
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    General discussion

    Chrissy sounds a kindhearted woman. I too hate to think you came to the UK and felt unwelcome. We are known for being friendly and kind. I’m so sorry you didn’t feel this way. I can’t imagine after this experience why you would want to stay. Life is tough here alone, if you don’t have a...
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    General discussion

    It sounds to me that your wife may have changed her mind. Perhaps now you live together here she is no longer happy? Perhaps the stress has made her feel unwell. I’m sure your family are worried about you and want you to go home. Maybe then her family will step in and help her. It seems your...
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    General discussion

    I’m very sorry to hear this. I’m afraid bigotry is present in all countries. Based on fear or lack of understanding. We were never concerned that my sister wanted to marry a Muslim man, just that we were informed that it is not really acceptable to marry an older woman who has a child. So as...
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    General discussion

    I’m sure it’s not your fate. Don’t be so defeated. There is always a resolution. I came to this site to learn as my sister wanted to marry a Tunisian man and I wanted to know more about the country and culture. We were all shocked when she agreed to marry a younger man. So I understand why...
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    General discussion

    I have been reading your story, how awful for you. To wait so long to be together and it’s all gone terribly wrong.
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