good to hear your brother on the mend - bet you're relieved.
im busy at work and pondering wedding - no point in trying to plan from here so have dress, will just turn up!
hope its not too hot when im there.
your guy sounds exactly the same as mine ... I know exactly how you are feeling... I am so suspicious of stuff and have really kept my wits about me at all times - over the last year I have heard no mention of wanting money or gifts etc - but there was an occasision when the mobile phone was on the blink - it soon sorted itself out after a few weeks when I didnt offer to get a new one for him etc- there was also the ' I have to join the army unless I pay some money' I didnt offer to pay and within a week or so he explained that this wasnt going to have to happen for another year... maybe it was genuine, maybe not - but I suspect the only way we find out is to marry and bring them over - and thats an awfully big risk in my book! Better to try and keep things light and fun I think! good luck
welcome, follow yr heart listen to yr inner voice its never wrong x