I have an awesome fiance he is 22. From what he tells me there are a lot of untrustworthy men but that is any where you go. I went to see him in January and will be staying a whole month in June. I worried about that myself at first but you have to get to know the person you are with is my best advice. We have came across problems like any other relationship but I know he loves me for who I am and not what I can offer. You have to be smart and ask questions. If anything throws you off about him go with your gut instinct.