Well good luck Amy...hope it all turns out well.No you dont need to explain anything...of course...its your choice.I wouldn't go to Tunisia an not go to see the family, I personally think that's rude after all they have done for me in the past, it's respect to go there, regardless of what I've done or whatever, yes maybe they may not be 100% happy but I don't want to hide in a hotel like a coward. I can't help the way I feel and I've been honest. I'm sure everything will work out ok, if I had slight doubt is be in danger I wouldn't go I know it has risks but I trust he would never hurt me, I've seen him mad before, he takes himself out of any ahit situation. Anyways end of I dot want to say anymore feel like I'm constantly explaining myself, thank you for your concerns and advice x
You say they may not be 100% happy...well can tell you that they will probably act like you have "the pledge"...but hope for your sake they are more modern in their ways of thinking...that would make it a lot easier. In european way of thinking you are doing it "the right way"....but thats different.
Keep safe at all times!