If people had this negative attitude no one would do anything. We wouldnt take risks in life which what makes us who we are. If I hadnt taken the risk to move over here then I would never have meet my husband and have the life that i have now.Hi Jane hope that you and your family are all well! Yes I totally agree it is a very very negative way of thinking and before anyone says HOW DO YOU KNOW HE WON'T LEAVE YOU" I just know that he could not do without me nor me himbut yes we do not know what lies ahead but thinking positive is a much better way of getting through anything on a day to day basis
The glass is always half full in my eyes and risks are there to be taken, if they work out then great but if they dont at least I have tried and lived life to the fullest!