hahahahahahahahhaha! oh my! I could just picture that conversation!Just to give a bit of background info - ever night our family and the family of hubbys brother got to hubbys parents to break our fast as one big family.
Yesterday all the kids (ours and the son of hubbys brother) were all being wild and out of control! My SIL and I spent the whole afternoon chasing the kids around, trying to prevent things from getting broke/damaged, keeping the peace, etc.
When it was finally time to sit down to dinner, we were pretty worn out. I joked that I am going to run away and leave the kids with hubby, which would in turn mean my MIL would have to take care of them. Here is how the conversation went (FYI, hubby wasn't there - he was working):
ME: I'm going to run away by myself and leave hubby to take care of the kids.
MIL: Oh no you don't! I'M going to run away!
BIL: Why don't you two run away together?
SIL: That means we'll get to watch all the kids.
BIL: No, we'll run away as well!
SIL: Then who is going to watch all the kids?
ME: (turning towards FIL) That just leaves you Baba. Can you handle them all?
FIL: Sure, no problem. They'll behave for me.
****sound of something breaking in the background****
ME: Good, they're yours as of 2 seconds ago!!![]()
Lol - know the feeling. H only been here 4 months and I was under no illusions about what it would be like once he got hereHi everyone! not been on here for soooooo long, been 'living the dream' or the NIGHTMARE, depending which day ha ha. Thought i would just give you an update. We have been married 2 years last May and hubby been here for 21 month. He got a job after 3 month and is still lovin it and we are nearly ready to do ILR soon. Have been dying to say though , to all you ladies waiting for the visas....TAKE OFF THEROSE COLOURED GLASSES!! "Oh if only he were here with me my life would be complete. NO it won't, your life will be turned upside down and sometimes you won't even know who you are anymore! Nearly 2 years and I just about got him round to my way of thinking, bless him.
We are settled and happy, no major problems, but the little things that will bug you are too numerous to mention. I certainly think I have a good one but who knows, after some of the stories on here......its scarey. Anyway, sorry to go on and best wishes to you all xx![]()
Hope you feeling better soon xWas in hospital yesterday - had to have an operation. Hubby has been wonderful. Cooking, tidying-up, sorting my pain relief. He went to buy bread and came back with a large bar of chocolate lol.......sweetheart!!
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Hi Crazypink sorry to hear that you had too go into hospital and have an operation, hope that it was not too serious.. Hope that you will be feeling better soon x xWas in hospital yesterday - had to have an operation. Hubby has been wonderful. Cooking, tidying-up, sorting my pain relief. He went to buy bread and came back with a large bar of chocolate lol.......sweetheart!!
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I hope you recover swiftly (but tell your hubby you need a 'slow recuperation', as per your 'doctor's orders', with no heavy work,lifting(not even the TV remote control), etc!!Was in hospital yesterday - had to have an operation. Hubby has been wonderful. Cooking, tidying-up, sorting my pain relief. He went to buy bread and came back with a large bar of chocolate lol.......sweetheart!!
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Oh sweetie I hope you are okay and that it wasn't anything serious!Was in hospital yesterday - had to have an operation. Hubby has been wonderful. Cooking, tidying-up, sorting my pain relief. He went to buy bread and came back with a large bar of chocolate lol.......sweetheart!!
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What kind of things do u need to know? If it's paperwork related....this site is your source. However one thing I learned is that stuff is never 100% confirmed...sometimes...lol! Our weren't happened a day later than expected. Go as prepared as u can...especially having your own money.is it me or is tunisan men so secretive, they dont like to say much and hate answering questions which is so frustrating,trying to get information out of my partner is so pain staking stressful, ive run up my phone bill, as he credit always runs out, he contacts me daily, and say to me when i ask about things, dont worry everything will be fine, and that he is sorting things out, but im a person i like to see what is being planned, but he wont tell, me everything, he did the same sort of thing when i went over to tunis he said dont worry everything will be ok which it was but i am very i need to no sort of person, i start thinking things which he get's anoyed with, weve had a few raised moments, he's wants me to like there in tunisa, but dont mind coming to england for a couple monhs then go back as he has to work to surport his family, as they are dependent on his income, his mum not long out of hospital so he do have a lot of stress, but he deal's with it and have done for many year's in his own way, maybe that's why he's sailing through planning the wedding, but my pocket is empty, but he still need the last 600 which is so stressfull as i havent got it, ive got maybe 400 left, luckliy ive already brougth and paid for my flight ticket, and dress, just have to save fore spending money, but he said just get flight nothing else, dont worry about money, he will pay for everything, i need so reassuance im i just being a typical bride to be, or bridezilla...x
Hi Zara and welcome to the forum.Hi, I'm new to this site and would really appreciate some help. I'm planning on getting married in August next year (2013) to my Tunisian partner (male). I've been reading the numerous threads but it's all so confusing. Is there an order to the things that I need to do? Should my partner be studying for the English test now and if so what is or are the tests called? Should I start applying for or gather paperwork now and if so what paperwork? It would be great if some angel could write a simple crib sheet of things to do. Please help and a big thank you in advance.