so...if i can ask if you've met his parents, and what do they think? i suppose your probably around the same age as his mother or father, yes or no? i would say by the picture of you and him, eh! dont do it, but you will never listen to me or anyone else if he is filling you full of , only u! not interested in anyone but u! dont want a visa! happy here! till u move here and he wants out cause!! eh hello he has a foreign wife!! and u better organise that otherwise divorce! so after all that i actually hope it works out for u! and yes im waiting for all the how dare u say that! and crap! but im speaking to u from the heart and if u came on here for advise thats mine.