One more piece of advice..if I do go back in October (I have told him I will and he says he is looking forward to seeing me) what is the best thing to do..a hotel or apartment and flights? I know he wont be allowed in a hotel and staying with him is not an option as he shares with a friend as he cannot afford anything himself.
Any ideas ladies..want you all to keep your fingers crossed for me!!
I always found it better to rent an appartment more private.