He would often get in a stress with me over something I said or did the first time, ..... but told me this was because he wanted to see if I liked him. .... I can't see what good can come out of it. I don't want a relationship with someone who lives 1,000miles away, and what if he is horrible againâ€¦going on my own I risk spending the whole week being ignored, I'm also level headedâ€¦.if a friend told me she was going to do this I would have laughed!
Normally I would say hey why not if you don't you will never know (that was the attitude I took when I first decided to go and visit somebody) if it doesn't work out then at least you have had a few days away in a nice hotel. BUT there are a few things which I've picked out above that you wrote that makes me wonder....read them over again and see what you make of it...I think you know the answer.
Whatever you decide I wish you all the very best. x